tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post3108970121381486159..comments2023-05-29T05:07:09.362-05:00Comments on Maiden Of Purity: Flirty Girls! Flirty Guys!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-30835428971674629872009-08-04T17:39:34.166-05:002009-08-04T17:39:34.166-05:00I totally agree! Thank you!
Blessings,
JoshI totally agree! Thank you!<br />Blessings,<br />JoshJoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10164195393456997666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-47441563625076682292009-07-15T11:05:30.875-05:002009-07-15T11:05:30.875-05:00Elena,
Good question! Since I'm a guy, I view...Elena,<br /><br />Good question! Since I'm a guy, I view things as such quite different than you girls. When I see a girl flirting with me I feel a little bit weird, and the situation gets awkward. I want girls to be just normal with me, and not acting as is they have to be someone else. However, a girl who is joking or just kidding around is often cool and funny, but there is also a fine line between that. If she gets over the line and begins to do more joking and more playing around, I feel as if she is trying to get my overall attention. I like it when girls talk to me, but once again, like all things, done in moderation. I don't just go up to a girl and begin talking of EVERYTHING, because I don't want to come across as 'girl crazy'! So, yes when girls talk to me, it's fine, but doing it ALL the time, is annoying and kinda gives the impression that she's crazy about me or whoever. And joking around is fine, but just as Vanessa said, make sure if your behaivor is pleasing to God, and even asking the guy if this bothers him. That's hard, but also asking is better than going to far and messing up the friendship. Hope that helped!<br /><br />JesseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-50786412340696170582009-07-14T19:42:44.448-05:002009-07-14T19:42:44.448-05:00Wonderful post Vanessa! You are totally right.Wonderful post Vanessa! You are totally right.Moriahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06913959602582822759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-40461050057975681302009-07-14T19:29:12.928-05:002009-07-14T19:29:12.928-05:00Good thoughts Vanessa! :)Good thoughts Vanessa! :)Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00207618474192731259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-14065411447259179562009-07-14T00:10:36.663-05:002009-07-14T00:10:36.663-05:00Awesome post!!! You point out so many good points!...Awesome post!!! You point out so many good points!! I have found myself talking with guys and then later it's like "Did I give this guy the impression that I liked him??". And that's not what I wanted to do. So a question for the guys: is it sort of obvious whether or not a girl a flirting or just talking and joking??Elena Pizarrohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02971488732465538500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-89814185260163588532009-07-12T15:41:40.245-05:002009-07-12T15:41:40.245-05:00Really good post, I would also add that it is freq...Really good post, I would also add that it is frequently leading someone on, and therefore lying.<br /><br />I would agree with Josh, it is uncomfortable, and it's also annoying because I don't always know that they are flirting. Which I then respond in kind to a degree (which in some cases that action may be fine with some people...) and then it goes deeper...<br /><br />DanielDanielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13308264336932937645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-51961980011377897072009-07-10T21:00:54.864-05:002009-07-10T21:00:54.864-05:00Hey Vanessa, another good post! Just to chime in h...Hey Vanessa, another good post! Just to chime in here about how guys take joking/kidding, it really depends on the extent of the joking. I love to joke around with my friends but I myself have to be careful with the way I do things. I know that as as guy, if I see girls joking or kidding with me every chance they get, it comes across as forward or "flirty." I like to joke and I like it when others do, but too much can indeed give an impression of, "maybe he/she likes me." If I get that impression, then I also have to think that others may get that impression from me, so I have to try and be careful that I don't tease someone too much.<br /><br />To answer your question Southern Maiden, it makes a guy feel uncomfortable. I start thinking, "oh no, what did I do to make her like me?!?!" I also start thinking that I may have failed to be pure in the way I acted some how. So yeah, it's ackward and uncomfortable for a guy when a girl is being flirty.Joshuahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02747179714757953531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1409227686821479121.post-21249615256168063032009-07-10T16:14:40.134-05:002009-07-10T16:14:40.134-05:00Yes Nessa, we DO need to focus on God. That's ...Yes Nessa, we DO need to focus on God. That's what always quickens me when I tend to waver - "Remember to focus on the One that loves you most," I tell myself. Flirting is so needless - it's dumb!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <br /><br /> I would like to know a guy's perspective on something like this... How does it make y'all feel when girls are acting all flirty and so forth! Be blunt and make it detailed because I KNOW it's wrong, but I would really like to hear what guys are actually thinking when girls flirt with them?Erica Meluginhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02474618197822833764noreply@blogger.com